I often joke about what happened in the garden of Eden .. you know the part where they blamed someone else? However, truth be told, what happened was pretty serious. Now I know that Eve is the one who took the first bite, but for the purpose of this blog, my focus is on how they .. specifically Adam, reacted. He lost his proper perspective and blamed God.
God calmly handled the situation. There were some things that needed to change. There was a very serious lesson that needed to be learned and God was going to have to administer some tough love to do it. Up until this time, God had provided everything. All man had to do was enjoy. He didn’t have to work for any of the things God provided.
While God loved Adam and Eve, I’m guessing that He understood from the beginning, the relationship He desired with man would never work if man blamed God for choices man himself had made.
So after handing out the sentence, God covered them, and gently ushered them out of the garden. They had to learn personal responsibility. Blaming God for problems that exist will always create a gap in the relationship.
Adam and Eve would have to learn that power lies in taking responsibility. Power lies in accepting responsibility that it was our own choice that led us to do what we do .. regardless of circumstance, regardless of our past, regardless of how we arrived to do what we did .. we made a conscious choice.
It’s then that God can offer reasoning and understanding and use the situations to teach us why He told us not to take those actions in the first place. It’s then that the relationship can be restored to what it was designed to be. It’s then that God can use those things and work them for the good .. to those that love Him and that are called according to His purpose.
Sometimes tough love doesn’t feel good, but God uses our mistakes to teach us why it really is best if we just let Him BE God. When we blame Him, somehow, we put ourselves at His level. We are not gods. Nor are we His equal. We call Him our friend and His grace allows us to feel His nearness, but really, it’s important to keep a proper perspective of who He is.
When we take personal responsibility, we really do get a chance to see how God can turn ugly things into blessings. Taking personal responsibility allows us to see from God’s perspective, which is always positive .. always good .. always on the ways of love. Even if that means tough love.
God is good. ALL the time.
.. sometimes I, personally, need to be reminded ..
I may not understand. But the moment I blame Him for my choices, I’m making myself His equal.
Yeh .. not such a funny thing when you look at it like that.
Like I said, God is good. ALL the time.